Dr Kelly Fleming

As a young child I unknowingly created a code by which I live.

Over the years, friends have said that they always know where they stand with me and they respect that.

I’m not trying to be prideful, but the code by which I live has meant I have made many friends and remain friends with them for life.

There are probably less than a handful of people who have been a part of my life that I’m no longer in contact with because they broke my code.

Another phrase for “don’t be hurtful” is “don’t screw me over”. For a person to reach that point, that shows me they don’t respect me or trust me and it doesn’t say a lot for their own character.

I try to always be truthful and respectful to everyone I meet and speak with.

I’m grateful for this basic code.

It sets boundaries for everyone who is in my life and sets a bar high for friendships. The people I want to be a part of my life are those who also live truthfully and respectfully.